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Giving compliments to women is an area of seduction that a
lot of guys get very wrong. You see, most guys think that
the best way to get a girl interested in them is to
literally “shower” her with compliments. Well, the fact is
that in some cases, this may work, but in most cases, this
will kill all chances of seducing women.
In many situations, giving a girl a compliment will actually
REDUCE your chances of seducing her. And even when the
situation is right to give her compliments, you have to know
HOW to deliver the compliment. If you get it wrong you could
destroy any attraction she may have had for you. But if you
do it right, you immediately get the girl “hooked” on you
and increase your chances of seducing her by about 1,000%.
The best way to compliment a girl you want to seduce is to
use what I call the “Qualified Compliment.” Basically, a
qualified compliment is a compliment which has two parts to
it:
1) The actual Compliment (which is flattering to the girl),
and
2) Some kind of Standard she has to live up to (in order to
impress YOU)
These types of compliments fly “under a girl’s radar,” and
sound quite like a normal compliment until she reflects on
it…she’ll suddenly realise that it’s not a FULL compliment,
that there’s something missing…and this will then compel her
to start seeking your approval, and once she starts doing
this…YOU’RE IN!
Let’s check out a couple of examples. The first one goes
something like this, you could say to a girl, “You know, I
just realised something…You’re absolutely beautiful. In
fact, you would be my absolute perfect woman if you were
just a little bit taller, just like two inches or so.” This
sounds very much like a compliment but you still hold
something back (a standard; in this case, her HEIGHT) which
she hasn’t got. She would then begin to see you as a guy
with very specific standards, and that is hugely attractive
to women.
She’ll also start thinking that she is somehow inadequate
(in your eyes) and try to show you that she can make up for
that shortcoming in other ways. For example, she may wear
high heels the next time she sees you just to show you that
she can appear taller. Obviously you can replace the
standard of “height” with anything else like her tan, or
shoes or something like that. You see, psychologically, if
you can get someone to start “qualifying” themselves to you
and fighting for your approval, they will become more and
more attracted to you.
The second example is probably even more interesting. You
say something like this: “You know, you are one of the most
stunning girls I have seen in a while. In fact I’d say
you’re definitely in my top 9 or 10 girls…I’ve known quite a
few nice looking girls but I learned that every one has
certain unique qualities that set her apart from the next
one. And a girl like you reminds me of that unique type of
beauty among all women.”
A compliment like this will make her realise that you have
high standards in women, and although she’s beautiful…you’re
not overwhelmed by her because you have a lot of female
friends who look just as beautiful as her. She’ll want to
set herself apart from the other girls in your life by
impressing you in other ways and of course, this leads to
her becoming subconsciously attracted to you. The more she
tries to “qualify” herself and seek your approval, the more
attracted to you she gets.
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Source by Kenneth Oboh